Have you ever heard him talk about his parents? If so,is he respectful?
Would he rather TALK to you than text? Is he respectful toward you around his friends? Would you be okay with him spending time with your dad (or the fatherly figure in your life) when you aren’t around?
Would you be okay allowing him to see when your makeup/hair is not done? Does he have a father/mentor figure whom he seeks to model himself after? Does he give you more non-physical compliments than physical compliments? Does he have a job to support himself? Does he handle his money well? Do you have the same beliefs when it comes what matters to you most? Has he met your parents?
Have you talked about short term goals? Do your short term goals align? Have you talked about long term goals? Do your long term goals align? Does he stop when you say “stop?” Does he respect your body? Have you had dialogue about what you believe and why? Do you know anything about his past relationships? Does he know anything about your past relationships? Is his main reasons for being attracted to you non-physical? Are your main reasons for being attracted to him non-physical? Do the people you trust the most approve of him? Do the people he trusts the most approve of you? Is he involved in his local church, or charity, missions, or has a desire to help others? Has he ever offered to help with a project or something you were working on or stressed about? Does he try his best to stay clear of dangerous activities (texting/drinking and driving, speeding, other illegal activities)? Is he willing to admit when he is wrong?
Is he a person of integrity (not willing to cheat, steal, or lie even if no one is looking)? Is he sensitive towards people with disabilities, people who are elderly, etc.? Do you have the same beliefs when it comes to children? Do you feel comfortable when he’s around the people you are closest to? Does he show an interest in the things you are interested in? Have you ever seen him help someone? Do you feel safe around him? Do you feel that he would protect you in a time of need? Do you feel that he will stand up for you? Do you feel good about standing up for him? Do you see him as someone you could spend the rest of your life (and maybe even have children) with? Does he love God more than he loves anyone else?
If your answer is yes to most of these questions, then it sounds like you may have a good thing going. If your answer was no more than a couple of times, you should really take the time to this guy and maybe just spend some more time as friends and get to know each other! Are there any other questions you would add?
Would you be okay allowing him to see when your makeup/hair is not done? Does he have a father/mentor figure whom he seeks to model himself after? Does he give you more non-physical compliments than physical compliments? Does he have a job to support himself? Does he handle his money well? Do you have the same beliefs when it comes what matters to you most? Has he met your parents?
Have you talked about short term goals? Do your short term goals align? Have you talked about long term goals? Do your long term goals align? Does he stop when you say “stop?” Does he respect your body? Have you had dialogue about what you believe and why? Do you know anything about his past relationships? Does he know anything about your past relationships? Is his main reasons for being attracted to you non-physical? Are your main reasons for being attracted to him non-physical? Do the people you trust the most approve of him? Do the people he trusts the most approve of you? Is he involved in his local church, or charity, missions, or has a desire to help others? Has he ever offered to help with a project or something you were working on or stressed about? Does he try his best to stay clear of dangerous activities (texting/drinking and driving, speeding, other illegal activities)? Is he willing to admit when he is wrong?
Is he a person of integrity (not willing to cheat, steal, or lie even if no one is looking)? Is he sensitive towards people with disabilities, people who are elderly, etc.? Do you have the same beliefs when it comes to children? Do you feel comfortable when he’s around the people you are closest to? Does he show an interest in the things you are interested in? Have you ever seen him help someone? Do you feel safe around him? Do you feel that he would protect you in a time of need? Do you feel that he will stand up for you? Do you feel good about standing up for him? Do you see him as someone you could spend the rest of your life (and maybe even have children) with? Does he love God more than he loves anyone else?
If your answer is yes to most of these questions, then it sounds like you may have a good thing going. If your answer was no more than a couple of times, you should really take the time to this guy and maybe just spend some more time as friends and get to know each other! Are there any other questions you would add?
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